Do it gently, but do it
By Herb Drill
My mother died of cancer. A woman I cared about deeply died of brain cancer Sherry was 37. Later, another woman I was very fond of died of ovarian cancer Vicki was 40.
My wife’s first husband died at age 36 of non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma after her father had died of cancer years before also at age 36.
Can you say the words “hurt” and “CHAOS”?
A story in
The newspaper detailed that this past summer a
her to do a breast exam every day. “My oncologist was shocked I found the tumor,” she told the reporter. “Because I was in tune with my breast tissue, I
knew something wasn’t right.”
More of us
While October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month, dedicated to increasing awareness of breast cancer issues - especially early detection of breast cancer, every month, every day, should convey that awareness.
The widely-renowned Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation recommends beginning monthly breast self-exams by age 20. Or, if there isn’t a family history of breast cancer, at age 35. The best time to do a self-exam is the same time each month after a menstrual cycle has ended. For post-menopausal women, it should be performed the same time each month.
Annual screening mammography should begin at age 40 because: the older a woman gets, the greater the risks for breast cancer; most women diagnosed with the disease have no history of it in their family; finding breast cancer early often means less surgery, and it can give a woman peace of mind.
Go to all the women in your life you identify as people you would miss if they weren’t in your life and suggest politely that they begin mammography tests, where applicable, and do self-exams. I love my wife and stay on her case concerning such tests. Still, the older I get the more I miss my mother’s wit and wisdom and the other women I mentioned were special to many people.